If a guy used to go out with your friend you shouldn’t pursue him after that relationship ends. False. First, is she really your friend? Women have way too many categories and levels when it comes to friendships. You have your sisters...

“I know it’s time to leave, but I can’t” was the header of an email I received last week after one reader read the last blog. She has been dating this guy since high school and despite the fact that he has...

In the immortal words of Shug Avery, ”I’s married now!“ I want to thank everyone for the well wishes. The Wedding was beautiful. The Honeymoon was epic. The bachelor party was… well we can’t talk about that. I have a lot of things I want to...

Boy meets girl. Boy falls in love with girl. Boy marries girl. It should be that simple right? But we don’t live in a fucking Meg Ryan movie, we live in the real world and this is how it goes. Boy meets...

Men are taught to be strong, tough, and not take shit from anyone. Nice Guys finish last is embedded in our brains. So when it’s time to go for what we want, we go for it. The most successful men in this...

I spent a week emailing with this girl because she didn’t want me to blog about her situation. Finally she relented and gave me the okay after I told her it would not be judgmental at all. This young lady is in...