There is one thing I find extremely ironic, and that’s the bashing of black men by a number of black women. We’ve all heard the phrase “Niggas ain’t shit” it’s not being uttered by Mitt Romney’s campaign manager; it’s being said loud...
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Category Archives: relationships
You Ain’t Bout That Life
“Our husbands weren’t brain surgeons, they were blue-collar guys. The only way they could make extra money, real extra money, was to go out and cut a few corners” – Karen Hill Goons, Thugs, Hoods… these men may not be the most...
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Loyal Pu$$y Vs. New Pu$$y
TeamLoyalPussy is confused and they have a right to be. LP holds him down, puts his happiness first, and at the end of the day through good times and bad times, she’s right there by his side. So why would a man...
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Maybe We Should Take A Break
What’s the difference between breaking up and taking a break? One usually ends with you picking your shit up from the front yard after it’s been tossed out, the other ends with one last nut and an amicable “I’ll call you later,...
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Why You’re The Homegirl, Not The Girlfriend
Love and Basketball set a lot of women up for failure. As awe-inspiring as it was to see best friends become soul mates it also planted this passive ass idea of “I won’t express my feelings, I’ll just friend him into wanting...
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B**tch, You Ain’t Cray!
Jazmine Sullivan sang about busting the windows out of her man’s car. Carrie Underwood went super hard when she keyed the truck of the nigga who dared to cheat on her. Good songs, but that shit ain’t cute. It disappoints me that...
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Are You In Love With A Loser
“I have my own crib, nice car, and no kids. Every man should want me but why don’t they?” is a general question I get at least once a week. There is a misconception that because a woman is independent and doing...
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