Grab your phone right now, go one by one through every man in your contacts, and place a check next to those who you know for a fact will do the following things: Pick you up and take you out to any restaurant you want. Pay at least half your rent if you were in dire need. Give you, not loan you, more than $200 with no questions asked. If you’ve made it to the T’s and the only guy you can put a check next to is, “Daddy” or “Granddad” then you need to erase your fucking sim card. Most of you will proudly proclaim that you don’t need a man to do shit for you and list all your independent woman accomplishments. You can buy your own flowers and pay your own bills, but you shouldn’t have to do that 100% of the time. Being treated isn’t about needing a man; it’s about getting back the respect that’s been lost over the years. Every woman, no matter how high she climbs in life, should be able to experience what it’s like to be taken care of. The era of hos winning, has lasted far too long. It’s been time for non-hos to rise up. Yet, I still see girls settling for dudes that think courting is something that happens after he fails his piss test. If a man has love for you, he looks out for you—there is no ummm you see the way my direct deposit is set up… There’s a difference between not being able to take care of a woman and not wanting to take care of a woman. The niggas that most of you fall for aren’t disabled, they are capable of putting in work, but they’re entitled, and would rather you take care of them. Seven out of ten men operating in the 21st century fuck for free because women don’t make them put their money where their mouth wants to be.
There are egotistical women who brag on all the men that want them and blow up their phones, but realistically it costs nothing for a man to pursue you if all he’s expending is text messages and compliments. Few women know what it’s like to be legitimately pursued. Girls today don’t even understand what dating is, they think it’s something you only do after you get a boyfriend. What haveth thou new Negroes doneth, to these basic bitches? It has to magic, because I refuse to believe that women willingly swallow these new rules. One girl told me how nervous she gets when she goes on dates because she’s not sure if the man expects her to pay half, and she doesn’t always have money to cover it. Reread that shit, and tell me that men aren’t out here winning. You mean to tell me I can hunt you down, blow your phone up, tell you how sexy you are, get you out on a date, and make you split the check? You’re the woman, the center of the fucking male universe, yet you’ve all been devalued to the point where you are literally paying to spend time with a man. Ladies, don’t let your pride and ego fool you into believing you should be going Dutch with these niggas. You live in a man’s world where they don’t want to give you equal pay, talk about your stupidity behind closed doors, and brainwash you into staying in a kitchen bitch mindset, but as soon as it’s time to show you a good time, men want to remind you that you’re an independent woman and should split the price of that Wolf of Wall Street ticket and buy your own popcorn. How is this acceptable?
The Dark Side
I was doing an interview with this woman back in September about the book and she asked me about the Spartan code and was really into taking control and being fearless aspects. She asked if she could Spartan Up and get a few dollars out of these men to pay bills or even get a vacation because she was taking a break from love. My aim is for women to Spartan up to take control of their own life, not to take control of someone else’s wallet. If a window-shopping ass nigga just wants to browse, cut his cheap ass off. Spartans don’t beg for dates, they have too many other options to be pressed over why a broke nigga won’t take her out. Nevertheless, the interviewer was on to something… what’s the dark side of that Spartan power, when you use your electrifying personality, extreme confidence, sexy charm, and no fucks given aggression to get material things? You become a Ho. It’s like being either a Jedi or Sith in Star Wars, same power, vastly different aim. Men do love hos and women have always been curious as to why men say they hate hos but usually end up chasing them. We all know it’s just not the allure of new pussy, because all of you have pussy that’s considered new to someone… I hope.
I’ve always gotten the, “how do I get him to buy me things,” question over the years, but I’ve never addressed it in the open because if you want love, which is a partnership, getting things shouldn’t really be at the top of your list. But if you’re like the interviewer and don’t give a fuck about love or finding a partner, and you just want to live the good life, then you have that right too. If I judged women for wanting to be taken care of, then I would have to judge my homeboys who live with their bottom bitches and don’t pay a dime. I don’t judge my boys who have player mentalities so I can’t judge those girls who want to be on that same grind. To keep it all the way real, most men who read relationship advice start and stop with books on Macking, because using women for pussy is the acceptable goal for men, not love. So I started to think about how male Hos aka players can use Dick Tactics as if it’s all fun and games, but it’s taboo for females to use Ho Tactics to even the field.
I define Ho the real way, not the internet meme way. Ratchets call everyone a Ho, but mostly use it to slander women who sleep around or who look like they sleep around. There are Male and Female sluts that just want a nut, are addicted to that sexual release, and don’t discriminate. Male Hos and female Hos could care less about a nut, they are about money, and crave a come up. Bottom Bitches are probably about to trick their tax return on a male Ho right now. You’re probably sitting in class next to a female Ho that has a sponsor paying for all the classes that you needed loans for. Hos are anonymous; they aren’t cartoon characters that you can easily spot on Instagram or in the club because real Hos move in silence. Hos don’t like to share secrets, they don’t even like to talk about their motives aloud, but I think a lot of you non-Hos could learn a lot about the mentality of men from them.
Getting Your Sugar Daddy
There is no such thing as luck. Finding a guy who freely spends on you or finding a guy who doesn’t mind sponsoring you while you get your shit in order isn’t a roll of the dice. It’s the direct result of actions that attract those types of men. I’ve seen the bitterness online when certain women showcase the things they get from guys or the places they are taken, and as another woman, you shouldn’t have to be envious. All of you have the ability to do the same shit those women do, the same way dudes can learn how to play girls for pussy, all it takes is the ability to learn the tactics and apply them. It has nothing to do with you not looking a certain way or living in a wack city, and everything to do with utilizing Ho Tactics the smart way. Hos do win where the average woman fails. They get spoiled while the typical woman is forced to spoil and they often get treated to things other women can’t even get from men they’ve been with for years. So how do they do this and how can you incorporate this into your non-Hoish lifestyle? That’s like Luke Skywalker going to Obi Wan like, “Fuck this light saber, how do I learn how to do all the cool Sith shit like shoot lightning from my hands.” You can learn how they do it, but honestly, you won’t be able to replicate it unless you go down that road. This is Spartan country, not Planet Ho, so while I often acknowledge Hos and have an appreciation for what they do I didn’t want to do a series of posts about perfecting that lifestyle and exploiting various types of tricks. At the same time, it was a topic that fascinated me, and I wanted to write about it. This idea lead me to start talking to women that live a um, certain lifestyle… and for the past three months I have been compiling the stories of these eleven women of leisure and mixing it with my own experiences so I could come up with a definitive way that Smart Hos operate.
I call this guide Ho Tactics: Getting Treated, Tricked On, & Sponsored. Not only does it show all the proven ways these girls have won, it outlines how to do all of it without having sex. I repeat—not once does it require sex! Yes, these girls are winning with a tighter coochie than a lot of y’all. I realized most of you would want to read this on the low, so I’ve made the entire book available as a digital download that you can read now if you go to solvingsingle.com or you can click here.
I know women have so many questions about how these ladies who often time don’t look as good as they do or aren’t as educated manage to get things handed to them often times without asking so I laid it out in a practical way that is super easy to understand. I went step-by-step from the meet and greet, to the flirting, seducing, and even the right way to ask (hint, it has nothing to do with putting a hand on your hip and asking to get your hair did). I talk about the D-boy tricks as well as touch on the celebrity ones. I talk about everything from the right way to have phone sex to the right way to pick out first and second dates. It’s over a hundred pages of straightforward methods, none of which have appeared on BGAE or in Solving Single, and while I may talk about Hos again sporadically, it will never be as deep or revealing as this madness. A Ho is going to be Ho, a gold digger is going to dig for gold, but I think regular women should at least understand how it’s done in an intelligent way. For some of you it’ll just be an interesting read for others, it may lure you to the dark side—I make no moral judgment either way. I hope the fellas read it too, because it’s a game plan that gets a lot of dudes caught up no matter if you work managing a store or shooting three pointers for a living. What I found the most fascinating when researching this is that the men who get caught up don’t see it coming because they are watching out for stereotypical ratchet hos or groupie smuts as opposed to these genius level hos. So, no matter who you are it will benefit you. Below is the list of chapters.
Chapter 1: Ho World Order (The breakdown)
Chapter 2: Why Men Love Hos (It’s more than that new pussy allure, much more)
Chapter 3: Being Disciplined Around Dick (Every girl needs to read this)
Chapter 4: Pussy Costs (My favorite part)
Chapter 5: Treats, Tricks, or Sponsors, Who to Hustle (The breakdown of the various marks)
Chapter 6: How to Flirt the Ho Way (since a lot of you have no clue)
Chapter 7: How to Seduce the Ho Way (Taking it to the next level)
Chapter 8: Make It Nasty (The In’s and out of Pussy Bragging and Phone Sex)
Chapter 9: How to Make Him Fall in Love the Ho Way (The main way Ho’s win)
Chapter 10: How to Ask for Gifts, Money, or Favors the Ho Way (There is an art to asking)
Chapter 11: Exit Strategy (Getting the fuck out while you still can)
Chapter 12: To Ho or Not to Ho (Are you bout this life)
“Pretty hurts and pussy costs, so why get all dressed up, waxed
up, and made up to go sit in some nigga’s house.” -Ho Tactics
I spent a lot of time working on this and the ladies who helped with my “Maria The Ho” examples really opened up about some really fucked up yet entertaining things they’ve done, so I hope all of you who are Ho-curious read and enjoy it. No matter if you’re looking for a come up or just an interesting character study, these tactics are a must read.