SHE SAID: “How do I know if a guy wants to be with me or if he’s only trying to have sex?” HE SAID: “How do I get her to have sex without her thinking I want to be in a relationship?”...
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I Just Wanna F**k
Monthly Archives: July 2011
Can White Girls Say “Nigga”
The word nigga carries way too much weight. Black people dropped the “er” and added an “a” and since then it’s been the coolest fucking word in the lexicon. “Nigga” is one of those perfect words, it can be said with affection...
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You Decided To Cheat On Your Man…
“I know it’s time to leave, but I can’t” was the header of an email I received last week after one reader read the last blog. She has been dating this guy since high school and despite the fact that he has...
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When is It Time To Leave Him?
If he only calls you when he wants something—bitch leave. If he would rather hang with his boys than with you—bitch leave. If he has a key to your apartment and has never offered to pay your cable bill—bitch leave. If he...
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Are You Approachable?
Most of you know that I am in the midst of writing the Black Girls Are Easy book. While I was finishing a chapter called: The 10 Questions You Have To Ask On A First Date, I read an email that made me...
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