What stops a woman from having sex with a man? Fear. She is afraid that you will do her dirty after you get the coochie. I said it before, it doesn’t matter when a woman gives it up, if a guy digs her he digs her, if he doesn’t– pussy will only expose his true nature. Today I want to talk to the fellas who invade Iraq and don’t know how to leave without destroying half the cities. I want to talk about exit strategy. You met the chick, you gained her trust, and you exposed her coochie’s defense like you were Peyton Manning in the pocket. You won the battle without making her your girlfriend, you hit with no strings attached– pat yourself on the back. But now that you are done with this girl how do you get rid of her? There are a ton of reasons why men grow tired of women, but let’s touch on some of the common ones and then talk about that post sex exit strategy.
She’s Getting Too Serious: Why did she have to fuck everything up by wanting to talk about feelings? What part of “you wanna come over” screams let’s go on a dinner date? How dare you lure me in with your body then expect me to want you mentally? Yes you can convert casual sex into a real relationship, but its advanced algebra not simple multiplication. There are many steps that must be taken to get your physical relationship to the next level, and quite frankly it’s asking a lot from a man once he’s become accustomed to hitting that ass recreationally. I really liked this girl I use to have sex with, she was one of my coolest non girlfriends, but I didn’t want to be in a real relationship with her, I just wanted to do her. She would stop talking to me every few months then we would hook up again. This went on for nearly a year. Threatening to cut me off didn’t change a thing, not calling me for weeks or screaming that I’m a bitch did not make me change my ways and give her a promise ring! I was prepared to walk away from her at a drop of a hat because it wasn’t that serious. I loved her as a friend, honestly I did, but it was a selfish love similar to the kind a little kid has for his neighbors who lets him play their PlayStation 3. If what you two have is not serious; you can’t flip a switch and expect him to go from lust to love, it takes time, a lot of time.