What do I think about a woman holding on to her virginity? As a man who likes sex, I hate it. But as a man who will one day have a daughter, I love it. I hate the cliché of “save it for marriage” I don’t think anyone should wait until marriage to have sex, but at the same time there shouldn’t be girls who’ve fucked five guys before they’ve even had a senior prom. I have never taken a girl’s virginity, and I’ve never wanted to. Even as a teenager most of the girls I was with had been with one or two guys before me (yes I was raised in a city of sluts, but I loved it), which made things a lot easier. The funny thing about when you’re young is that you assume every girl is a virgin, but by time you reach college you figure that 80% of the girls enrolled had their cherries popped in High School, so your only job is to avoid the other 20%. Men aren’t afraid to be a girls first because of the emotional attachment she may develop, most of us could care less. We’re afraid to get involved with a virgin because the older the virgin, the bigger the cock tease, and when you’re at a university where girls outnumber boys 4-1, blue balls have no place.
Real Virgins, not the “I haven’t had sex in seven months” variety, know they’re going to have sex and it won’t be on the honeymoon. But they’ve waited this long so they can’t give it up on a one night stand, and even if they’ve been seeing a guy for a minute, they’re still reluctant to “make love” because it has to be a certain way. You don’t want it to be in someone’s basement. You don’t want it in the Holiday Inn. His room is too basic, and your house is too close for comfort. Then you add the religious aspect and it’s amazing that some girls ever have sex. I once had to surfer through the worst hand job in the history of hand jobs because this girl thought Jesus was okay with a dry tug and rub, but using lotion was a sin… true story.
Don’t Be A Virgin Whore
If you haven’t found the guy worthy of you, cool, I mean it’s not cool, but I’m glad you have higher standards than most, especially in the age of 16 and Pregnant. But if you’re going to be a virgin. BE A VIRGIN. The last girl I talked to who was a virgin did me so dirty that it makes me mad just typing this. I had no idea this girl was a virgin, because she didn’t speak on it. But she did like to speak on other things, mainly dick. If you want lessons in phone sex she could teach it. Every time we talked, day or night, she was getting freaky. This went on for about a week and a half before we finally got time alone. In person she was shy, giggly, and didn’t even want to touch it. Why? She was a virgin. I thought she was lying. No way a girl who talked that much shit never had sex. Another one of my homeboys at school laughed at me, “oh such and such, she a virgin”. Like it was common knowledge around campus. I didn’t get the memo. But apparently a few other cats did and that’s why they didn’t peruse her. I was just another sucker she used to get her repressed porn star out. To her sex talk was fun and innocent because at the end of the day it was just talk. For me, if I ask you can I hit it from the back while you suck your tit, and you moan disappointed, “only one?” that’s a good time waiting to happen. How dare you show me a trailer for the greatest motion picture ever made then take me to see How To Train My Dragon. I call shenanigans lady! If you feel that sexually deprived that you have to give bad hand jobs and engage in explicit phone sex than you are doing yourself an injustice. You’re horny, you’re a freak, there is nothing wrong with that—Fuck and get it over with! Why be a prisoner to this idea of virginity for virginity’s sake.
Young boys run to pussy, we don’t care how our first looks; we just need to be able to go tell our friends we’re having sex. Honestly I didn’t even like the girl I lost my virginity to. In retrospect I couldn’t stand her. She was skinny, annoying, and dumb as a brick, but I wanted needed to have sex, and she was my best option. So I toughed it out, smashed, and broke up with her the very next day. That’s fucked up! But it taught me to respect girls who aren’t easy because unlike the “spread’em cus he said I’m pretty” ratchets, they know how men are. We aren’t shit, we are breed to see them as an object, yet they don’t hold that against us. Women accept that we only want sex, and they don’t run, they reform. ”If you want this, it’s going to be on my terms”. That’s what separates a real woman from a hoe. Some virgins are hoes just waiting for the flood gates to open. Yeah it took shorty until the age of 23 to have sex, that doesn’t mean she won’t body 12 guys by the time she’s 24. Just because you aren’t fucking yet doesn’t mean once you start you’ll be as picky.
My fiancé told me an interesting thing, she lost her virginity when she was 19 and I asked if she regretted waiting so long, she replied “I wish I never had sex at all, it complicated life”. And that’s one more thing that makes women better than men, sex doesn’t control their relationships, if anything it gets in the way of love. You are a virgin, you are waiting for that right person, then wait, don’t settle. But I employ you to be up front. It’s not TMI when you’re on a 2nd date and the guy doesn’t know. It may be embarrassing, it may get you into a conversation you don’t want to have, but you have to tell that man. If he thinks that being a virgin defines who you are, and it costs you a potential boyfriend—Fuck him. It’s better to get blown off in the first week of the budding relationship than after two months when he finally realizes that you aren’t just testing him.
Girl: I’m a virgin
Guy: …wow. That’s what’s up. (Dag bitch, after two months you tell me this?)
Girl: I’m not waiting until marriage, I just want to wait for the right time, with the right person, hopefully that person is you.
Guy: Ahh I’m not even worried about that baby. (Hopefully? Man, she got another month to give me the ass)
Girl: I knew you would understand! I love you so much bay.
Guy: I love you too. (Damn! She ain’t going to know how to ride or nothing, probably be blood everywhere. I knew I should have hollered at her homegirl instead, that bitch got a kid, so I know she fucking)
No matter what he says initially when you drop the bomb on him, he’s going to be pissed inside. But It’s not about him. It’s about wasting your time with a guy who wasn’t strong enough to be in a relationship where sex wasn’t the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. For the fellas would you be strong enough to be with a girl who was a virgin? If she’s special, then that’s an easy answer. If you have to think about whether or not she’s special, then the answer’s even easier.